Valentine's Day can be more than getting chocolate and flowers from your beloved, so if you are single, there's no need to fret.V-Day is not only the glorification of romance, but also a celebration of love in general-love for yourself, your friends and loved ones. We have some great ideas to inspire you to have fun and make this V-day special for you.

Host a cocktail party for all your equally single friends (male or female). There's nothing better than a dance party with all your closest friends. Choose cocktails to serve along with some delicious appetizers.

Try something daring and death defying, anything you've never done but have always wanted to try like sky diving, bungee jumping, hot air balloon ride, white water rafting. You'll have fun and feel great having done something unusual.

If you are a party person, grab your friends and go to some happening disc or a pub, just dance the night away.

What abbout a complete day of pampering, no distractions, no worries and no agenda other than making yourself feel special.Start the day at your favorite café, Linger around your favorite shopping street and spend the complete afternoon in a Spa center to get a relaxing body massage and fresh herbal facial. On the way back home, pick up your  takeout and pair it with some of your favorite movies. Wow! What a perfect ending of a perfect Valentine day.

New Year time is all about having fun with friends and family but what if you are alone, it's no doubt very disappointing, and who wants to remain single on New Year however what can you do if your friends and family are away. Trust me you have not lost it completely. So many things you can do to make your new year special and memorable.

• It's the age of technology, Log in to any chat messenger and be with your dear ones on video chat. You will feel their presence around you. You can send in New Year messages to all your friends on facebook. Internet can really fill the distances between you and your loved ones.

• Don't be sad or depress. It's a New Year and you should start it with zeal and happiness even if you are alone. Create that environment by decorating your house. You'll definitely feel the ambience of New Year while doing so.

• Don't reject yourself, pop open a bottle of champagne when the clock strikes 12, gulp it down and then pour another glass for yourself to have at your own leisure.

• When you are all yours, this is the best time you can have a food of your own choice that you might have been ignoring because no one liked the same in your family. Give a feast to your taste buds, order the tempting food of your choice or cook it in case you enjoy the same. I have seen lots of people for whom cooking is a great stress buster.

• Dance, Dance and keep dancing. You don't have to feel awkward or uncomfortable as no one is around to watch you. Go mad and try all those crazy steps of dancing that you may have dreamt sometime in your life.

• As a wife and mother you must have pampered your husband and kids and ignored yourself. Now it's your turn. Pamper yourself. All those scented candles you've been stocking up on, and those baths salts that are hidden inside the cabinets, have to come out now. Light some scented candles and pamper yourself to a long and relaxing bath whiles on the phone with your loved one or even reading one of your favourite books.

• Do you have some favourite movie that you were not able to see as your family was not interested? Go enjoy it. It's your day and do what YOU like.

The festive season is a great time to meet someone, who knows it could be your Mr Right. Here are some places you could go to meet:

• At a friends Christmas party, you just tag along and who knows.
• Holiday, he could be relaxing too and getting away from the family head ache
• Local Christmas party, maybe where you live organizes something, and you could meet someone that you never know that lives near you.
• Pub (but not too sure about that one, especially if they just went to drink?)
• Restaurant, go up to someone and say Merry Christmas....

• Supermarket- doing the groceries is great, you can see what he likes
• Shopping Centers- who knows keep your eyes open while you are doing the present hunting.
• Hairdresser, mmmm but you need to ask that question if you know what l mean, lol
• Online, but remember if it's too good to be true then it is, no one can be that nice
• Singles night, but be careful with the desperate ones, trust me.
• Walking your dog
• At the gym, if he likes you here then you are set.
• Or on Christmas Eve, just leave the cookies and milk out and wait for Santa!

Remember it is all about having fun and who knows you may meet that special someone this festive season, hohoho!

And here is a picture of a hot guy to get you started, this is what could be waiting for you.