In a perfect marriages created in fairyland book of Cinderella couples never fight and never hurt each other. However real life is not a fairy tail, in real marriages there are arguments, misunderstanding which grows and takes the form of fights.These arguments are started by the man, sometimes the woman.
Mostly a small confusion takes a shape of big problem that may lead to end of relationship. How to solve this small arguments? The answer is pretty difficult as People are so different that even the way we deal with conflict can be very different, and if there isn't a mutual understanding of this fact in marriage, both sides can get frustrated.