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  • When Your Kids Turn Into Dating Adults

    10-Dec-2012
    Tags: Parenting , Advice , Tips , Dating , Teen Parenting , Advice , Tips , Dating , Teen , teenager more more more less

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    So who is this new person that my used-to-be-child, is bringing home to dinner? You ask yourself this and many other questions as your over-protective husband loads up his 12-gauge shotgun ready to hunt the boy that he won’t let prey on his baby girl. 

    Maybe it’s your son’s first date and he wants to use the car to take his sweetie pie around town. But remember, he’s seventeen with a lead foot and he already has two tickets to his name thus raising his insurance. 

    Parents, what do you do when your children start dating?

    You dread to think about it, I know. Your kids are getting older; the innocent years of their childhood are only to become memories in digital photo albums on the family computer. Parents, please realize this is all a part of growing up. Heck do you honestly think that your parents were happy with all of dating choices, probably not. 

    Embrace your children as they grow into mature adults. Give them hope; tell them stories about your dating joys and woes when you were their age. Truth be told, I still like to hear those same ol’ stories about when my parents were dating. It gives me a slice of hope and also great to hear.

    So parents, single or married, be there for your kids when they need your advice, though you may not agree with who they’re with at the time. Remember; opposition creates more walls. 


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  • Why “I Hate You” Is Something To Celebrate

    31-May-2012
    Tags: Parenting , Teens , teenager , Teenage Daughter

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    Teenagers. I know. It’s a frightening concept. While my toddler is teaching me the meaning of the universe, my teenage is destroying my life as I know it. 

    I’m cursed… no no, that’s not the right word… let’s try again…

    I’m very LUCKY to be able to experience the joys of parenting both a toddler and a teen at the same time. I’ve recognized a lot of similarities between the two, actually and it is somehow helping me be a better parent to my teen daughter. 

    Toddlers explore and test boundaries and want to know and experience everything, all the time, immediately. Teens are sort of like that too, aren’t they? 

    My daughter and I disagree. A lot. About everything. Well, not everything. Just the clothes she wears to school, the friends she hangs out with, her curfew and… of course, her boyfriend. 

    As a woman who has dated her fair share of men in her time, (let’s keep that between you and I, ok?), I feel like I can spot the guys who just aren’t right for my daughter. Of course, as a parent, there are certain things we I know I have to let her figure out on her own. That doesn’t, however, stop me from trying to at least steer her in the right direction.

    Last week we were having a rather heated discussion about her current boyfriend and my daughter, the passionate conversationalist that she is, screamed, “I hate you! You’re ruining my life!” and stormed out the door. 

    It was the first time she’s ever told me she hates me, and it may not be the last. As much as the words first stung me, I also felt like celebrating. A teenager’s first “I hate you” to their parents is a milestone. Not a particularly pleasant one, but a milestone nonetheless. Sort of like the first time your child is heartbroken or the day they leave for college. 

    “I hate you,” is just one part of a teenager asserting their independence and growing, (all too quickly if you ask me), older. 

    So when your teen, (or… *shiver* preteen), utters those three painful words, try not to take it too personally. That doesn’t, however, mean you should let them get away with it.


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  • How to talk about "the birds and the bees" with your Teen

    05-Mar-2012
    Tags: teenager , Dating , Teen Dating , Parenting

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    You will be surprised to know the statistic that each year, 2.6 million teens become sexually active, and approximately one in 13 adolescent girls in the United States become pregnant annually. The CDC reports that at least 25 percent of teenage girls nationwide have an STD. Isn't this scaring? No doubt, it's difficult for any parent to accept that their kids might be dating. However before they get into some wrong relationship its better you speak to them like a friend and explain facts and dangers regarding dating.


     

    When and what all to explain:

    There is no fixed lesson how a parent should handle his teenager child, you just need to be very friendly and supporting towards them. Unless and until they trust you, they won't share their personal life. As soon as you identify that your teen is dating, you should sit and talk about sex with your teen with an open mind.Make them feel comfortable and give chance to clear all their doubts. As a responsible parent you need to decide the limitations for your growing child.


    Key talking Points:

    • Thanks to technology every child get curious and surf about sex on net but they might not be on the right website for correct information. Now it's your role to educate them regarding the true facts. Explain regarding STD and share the stats regarding the dangers related to the same. Avoid generic things and focus instead on the more critical issues, like protection against STDs and pregnancy.

    • Share the threat regarding online flirting. To help your kids avoid embarrassment or scandal, let them know that anyone has the ability to check out their online activity, so they should not share any nude photographs. As anyone can take the advantage and ruin their chances of landing an internship or getting into a dream school.

    • Teens generally get into sex thing just to build an impression among their friends. So explain them the limitations of any relationship and guide them that sex is not fun but just a gesture to show love which should come in any relationship after complete commitment.

    • The most important keep your talking tone casual & friendly so that they feel comfortable discussing his own thoughts. Ask them what they feel about the entire subject and how far they are in a relationship.

    Always remember you are the role model for your children so show your teen the core values of a lasting relationship, through acts of respect, compromise and love towards your spouse. Minimize fighting, maximize communication, and never talk trash in front of your children.


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  • How much sleep does your child need?

    14-Oct-2008
    Tags: Baby Sleeping , Baby , Sleep , Parenting , Child Baby Sleeping , Baby , Sleep , Parenting , Child , teenager , Toddler , Stress , Dream , Dreams more more more less

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    As a new parent you may ask yourself how much sleep my child really need. Sleep deficiency can start with children? as young as a toddler. Lack of sleep or trouble sleeping can make it difficult for young children to concentrate and can cause them to have problems working and playing with peers. Children need a lot of sleep for proper development. How much sleep is enough? It all depends on your child's age. Most kids' sleep requirements fall within a predictable range of hours based on their age, but each child is a unique individual with distinct sleep needs. Here are some approximate numbers based on age, accompanied by age-appropriate pro-sleep tactics.

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